Is there a way to force PS CS4 to automatically highlight to selection with the transformation (CTRL-T) grid?

This is the norm on almost every program I have ever worked with and I expect to see it when I select an item in PS.

It's just an irritation. I'd like some visual confirmation onscreen of the item I am working with besides having to continually check the layers box.

I definitely like the way that Fireworks does this much better than PS's default behavior.