On Sun, 4 Jan 2009 18:02:35 -0500, "KatWoman" wrote:
your smart mouth assumption that I "started it"
I'm not assuming that you started "it" (meaning the flame war). But you did start your *response* to "it," which was a mistake in my opinion if you didn't think it out several steps ahead. You know, like a chess match.
If you had just left "it" alone, "it" would not have been an issue --
i.e. "don't feed the troll." But by responding to "it," thinking your
response was going to finish "it," you surrendered your center (as the Japanese say), and found yourself frustrated by something you obviously couldn't finish.
true I cannot control another's behavior
but I can choose mine
and I CHOSE leave
You chose retreat.
Listen, I like you. You've helped me alot through your posts. I've subscribed to adobe.photoshop.windows so I can continue to read them.
I'm just saying, if you go into a flame war thinking one step at a time, you're gonna lose every time.
So like I said, if you can't control it, don't start it. (Observe example below, to which there WAS no further response.)
BB:)
On Wed, 17 Dec 2008 19:55:06 -0500, Voivod wrote:
I'm always amused when people snip out the bits that make them look like fools.
Then you should be very un-amused with yourself.
CC:)